BACK TO SCHOOL THEME: Day 5,"Socialarity"

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Belle Spirit Week Post, Day 5

Thank you for clicking on this blog post Bellers! If this is your first time on my blog here is a little intro for you:

Hi! My name is Belle, I aspire to be a Lyfe Blogger. What I want people to take from my blog is the impact of good things to do in LYFE! I want to help make the world a better place, starting with you! If you feel like emailing me for advice or questions for FRIBELLE, my email is right here. 

Now, let's get back to the real blog post!

So Bellers before we get into this blog post I want to talk about two things: 1.) Tessa's question that I have been postponing 2.) The reason why I will not be posting as usual

1.) Are you in love at the moment? 😂No. I already set an age for when I am ready to date from like 16-21! I believe the other years should be used wisely instead of thinking about boys. Like just be a child for now and no one else. If I am being honest I am a 7-year-old at heart, I still make my dad cut my pizza into squares😂

2.) The reason: I will not be posting again because of school. This year I am taking two bilingual classes: French and Spanish. I am also doing extra activities like Dance, Swimming, Acting, and Singing. I really need to also focus on my studies. I can't even have blogging come in the way. I am so sorry... but when I have breaks I will post! I promise I will notify you all! Thank you for understanding.

Now back to the real post:

                                   Vacay, Vacay🌉✈️

So summer vacation just finished ( leave a comment below if you are so in love with school you were excited and sad! I love school so 😂🙋🏽 ) and you can't wait to tell your girly squad about how much fun you had staying at your grandparent's working with them on their farm that is just 3 miles away! You went to the farm fest, played in the pig pen with your two little brothers, and you learned what farmers call winter in farmer language...potato! As you are on your way to your girly squad you see them talking already. They are talking about their vacation! You are excited cause you can't wait to talk about yours too! All of a sudden your friend starts talking about her trip to Paris. She went to Paris Fashion Week, got a house there, and got to get fashion tips from Karl Lagerfeld!

You brush that off thinking it is not a big deal and you are about to talk about your summer, then your friend starts talking about her all-around Europe trip! She went to the best Cheese factory in Germany, she had tea with the Queen of England, she shopped until she dropped, and her parents bought her, her own Island next to Spain!

You can't stop thinking about how your friend's vacations were better than yours - the trip to Hollywood, the Lua in Hawaii, and the trip to South Africa to see where they filmed Lea an American Girl movie. Then they pop the question: How was your vacay?. Every part of your body is aching, you don't know what to say. You blurt out: It was...fantastic! I spent the whole summer doing interesting things like...going to Burj Khalifah in Dubai. Then went to Italy to buy a castle there for my expensive clothes I bought in New York where I went to Planet Hollywood and bought my iPhone 7's because you know you need 3 iPhones. So yeah that is what I did.

WRONG!

That was a wrong move girl. I think almost everyone goes through this. So I have a few tips for you if this ever happens to you:

Think before you speak - This is very important and applies to everyday lyfe. You should not say anything you do not mean. Who knows if you say that thing about the iPhone 7's, your "friends" might be cold enough to ask for some proof. And guess what? You don't have any...

Be honest - Always be honest no matter what. Even if your friends laugh at you, you now know who are your real friends

Be happy for others - Your friend has her own island now? Fine! Be happy for her tell her "She deserves it" cause she really does deserve anything when she has an awesome friend like you! Plus, you already have an island set out for you...Heaven

Don't Brag - If you got an amazing, adventurous summer? Fine! But, please don't brag about it in a way you know will hurt people

That is it for Vacay, Vacay I hope you wrote down those notes!

                                Sister Friends🎉👯

Ok, so we don't always have Sister Friends. I mean it is really hard to find friends nowadays who will be by your side every single day. Here is the definition of Sister Friends  

Sister Friends: They stand up for you anytime; they tell you the cold harsh truth; they tell you when you need some vitamin n ( vitamin no ); they are there even when your family is broke...also they speak your mind #sharpay

Down below are some tips on how to be Sister Friends Bellers :

- They say "hi" to you, even when they are hanging out with the "cool kids" and the "cool kids," think you are nerdy.

- They tell you the truth even if they know you will be mad at them for a little while but they know you will forgive them later 

- When you get bullied, they stick up for you...even if the bully is a friend they have known longer than you

- A Sister Friend is a Sister Friend

I just can not stop there Bellers, I also want to know how are you a Sister Friend?

QUIZ: SISTER FRIENDS

1.) Your best friend is gesturing for you to come and sit with her at the lunch table, but the "cool kids" invited you over to sit at the "popularity table". You:

Pretend as if she doesn't exist

Give her the signal of "next time maybe" and go have lunch with the "cool kids"

Invite her over or sit down with her... if the "cool kids" say no. You Already know you have your real friend


2.) Your friend just got shouted on by a teacher when it was you that did the wrong thing! You: 

Hide your face in your book happy that the teacher didn't think it was you but feel bad for her

Roll your eyes when she looks at you with tears in her eyes

When class is over you pull your friend to the teacher's desk and tell the teacher what really happened



3.) Your friend said something that was not that smart. The reason she said that is because she has dyslexia! Everyone starts laughing at her. You: 

Say " At least she spoke up to say what she felt the correct answer is. Most of us, including me, will not be confident at all. I give her props for everything she has to say! "

Quietly continue going on with life ( I said life instead of lyfe cause that is not lyfe ), but feel guilty for not sticking up for her

Give yourself a facepalm. Whisper to yourself "why does she always have to embarrass me"


4.) You were walking down the street with your BFF, and she just got catcalled! She feels insecure now. You: 

Walk a little faster so no one notices you are her friend and say sorry quietly

Say "Hey! I believe we shouldn't insult ourselves and other human beings. So next time think about what you are going to say to a beautiful lady like this." 

Agree with the catcaller, cause you notice he is a popular 9th grader at your school


5.) It's your birthday! Time to share out them cupcakes! The "cool kids" told you not to share the last cupcake with your BFF! You: 

Totally agree with them and walk straight pass your BFF giving her the "cold shoulder"

You don't agree! You believe everyone has the right to eat cupcakes...especially my sister-friend :p

Nod your head, and mouth I am sorry to her as you brush her shoulder



Alright Bellers let us see what kind of friend you all are:

Blue: 3-7pts

Red: 8-13pts 

Purple: 14-23pts ( you at least got 3/5 )



3-7pts: Sorry to break it to you, but you are not a friend...talk less of being a sister-friend. You are a goal digger...of popularity. You want to be popular so badly you forget those who have been with you since. Even the times you got bullied, your friends were always there for you. I need you to be a better friend. We all need one now.

8-13pts: You are a PUPPET friend. The bullies pull your strings when you know the right thing to do. You want to be a better friend but you can't. You are so shy. I totally understand. I used to be like that. I was a puppet too. I want you to do these two things:
- Overcome your shyness
- Always stand up for whats right

14-23pts: Congratulations! You are a sister-friend! I only want you to help other people be sister friends too!


Hope you all enjoyed my blog post and:


📙Happy School Year 2017-18!📙


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Last Day :(

Won't be posting that much again because of school

Next Post: Probably going to show some pics from my vacay so stay tuned :p

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This blog post was so much fun to write! I loved it so much and learned from it too! I hope you learned something from it too!

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